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My day was always going to be a little bit strange. Before I could get too excited about the gig I had to go for an interview for a position at Oxfam. I couldn't really think about Bob until this was over. Or maybe I could. Whilst I was waiting in reception I spotted a huge advert/poster about the Make Poverty History Campaign. On it was a list of the events involved or related with/to the campaign. Next to the G8 it clearly said Live Aid?? Sorry Oxfam but I think that is slightly incorrect…
We left slightly later than we would have done, as I then needed to go home and change. This left us little time to see much of Cardiff, which was a shame. Particularly as, being the rather ageing groupie that I am, I wanted to go out early to a particular place where I thought the band might be before the show.
As it turned out there was a big rugby match on and practically the entire population of Cardiff (and probably elsewhere in Wales for that matter) were out and about in the pubs and bars. None of the band was in the said place - it was packed in there too. I'm sure they wouldn't have wanted to sit in such a packed bar. So I bought us a glass of wine each for a fiver a go for nothing!
On the way into the theatre I tried to steal the large and beautiful poster of Bob from the advertising board. It ripped and I could see lots of people looking at me, so I gave up. I later regretted this.
Once in the theatre we made out way to our seats, which weren't quite as good as I was lead to believe. We were 4th row back to the right of the auditorium. Did the person at the box office think I'd refuse to buy the seats if that's all he had to offer? I think NOT! Still the view was pretty good from there. Kaz and her husband had already arrived. And it was a real pleasure to meet them. They told me they had seen the support person before and he was pretty good. That made a refreshing change, as they were right.
We'd had a slight disaster with the camera situation. Somehow we'd foolishly left the little digital camera in the car, which was locked in a car park until 8 am on Saturday. We did manage to smuggle our SLR in under Howard's jacket, but as we are only using the in built flash it was too dark and the camera just refused to take any shots. So we were left with my high definition-high quality-inbuilt flash camera phone. See the photos and video clips to see what that actually means (PM me if you'd like to see any of them I'll have to email them to you).
Bob said he felt rather nervous, as it had been a couple of years since he did a gig, apart from one song at a little gig in the summer. Actually I thought it was 2 little gigs and more songs at the second. Nerves didn't make any difference to his performance tonight though; he was, as ever, superb.
Bob played a number of tracks which I'd never heard him perform live before which also meant some new stories to hear. He seemed different when talking about his marriage break-up, less emotional, more contained. He talked about everyone going through it and you just end up parking it in a convenient space in your brain. Seems as though this is what he's done. When it came to the requests section of the show I had decided to ask for Attitude Chicken, as he'd claimed in an interview that this was his favourite track from The Happy Club. He'd never played it live, so I wanted to see his reaction. At first he didn't hear me among all the shouts from the audience. Then a moment of silence, I snatched it and called out 'Attitude Chicken'. He repeated it and laughed as if it was a rather ridiculous suggestion. Ah well, the first song was what would have been my real request - Dave. My favourite Rats song and as he had said before when I requested it was also his. Then to my surprise he actually sang Attitude Chicken. I was amazed. He also did Banana Republic which was Kaz's request. (See below for full set list).
Towards the end we got up to dance. I made my way to the front. My mobile memory was now full and I forgot to pick up the SLR, which Howard had under his seat. I spotted a gap at the front and right in front of Bob so I made my way into it. This made up for the seats not being quite as expected for sure. Kaz and Chris were now to my right.
After the show we hung around to meet Bob. Whilst I was queuing at the merchandise stall for a tee shirt (which I didn't leave behind this time) Kaz found Reevo, or it might have been the other way around. Anyway, I could hear voices behind me saying 'and there's Jules' and turned round to be introduced to him. It was great to meet him too. Lucky Reevo also had tickets for the Peterborough show the next day.
Bob came out around 15 minutes later to greet his fans. Quite a long queue had formed. He didn't seem to mind at all. When it came to my turn, I had already decided what I was going to say. First I handed him the set list Kaz had managed to retrieve for me from the stage for him to sign. I also handed him my pen, with which to sign it. I then congratulated him on being Nobel Man of Peace. Rather tongue-tied I stumbled over the words but as soon as he heard the word 'Nobel' he interjected and said 'I don't know what it means yet, but I guess I will soon. Something big I think'. I meant to say 'and much deserved' but came out with 'something fantastic', probably a little over enthusiastically. Not quite what I had intended. He didn't bat an eyelid though, no raised eyebrow treatment for me this time. I went to take my pen back from him and nearly took his pen. He grabbed it back rather possessively and handed me mine. I laughed and said 'oops I nearly took your pen'. He then kissed me on the cheek and gave me a big hug. I realised he was leaning down towards me politely to greet my 5'0” lowly stance. So I took my moment and kissed his cheek, he kissed me again….
Howard then went to take a photo, the light was better over us here, so the camera clicked and flashed. Bob noted the camera and said 'ah a proper camera, no faffing around'. We both said 'well when it works'.
When we left I looked at the set list, he'd signed it with his own probably rather expensive ink pen. This struck me is rather bizarre, why did he take my pen to hold whilst using his? Another weird Bob thing, maybe? Perhaps he was being polite as I'd offered him my pen and thought I might get offended? Who knows?
Roll on 9 December and the Bristol show.
The set list:
Indifference Love or Something Sex Thing When The Night Comes Pouring Rain World Calling Clockwork Scream in Vain One For Me Mudslide Birthday Suit Mondays Someone's Looking at You Beat of the Night Joey Requests Mary Rat Trap I Cry Too Diamond Smiles Life is the Hardest Thing
Peterborough people tonight - enjoy and reports please!
aw, Jules, thank you so much for letting us know how it was can't belive he did Attitude chicken live! it's one of my favorites too...
um, the picturelinks seems to be working (great photos )...just stumbled across a page called youtube.com, don't know quite how it works, but..maybe! I'm sure someone else has some other site to recommed...I'm just thrilled thinking about seing the video
Try these, you can also do a search on the site. I've only uploaded a few so far of the 7, just in case they don't work. Let me know if they do and I'll upload the rest! The ones with him talking are the best, you can actually hear something coherent. As for viewing forget it! That's hi-def, hi-quality, inbult, zoom in x 4 quality for you!
Thank you Jules for your review! Sound like you had a great time! Cool he played Dave and This is the world calling. I've never heard these live I think.
What can I say, absolutely awsome. The supporting artist, Guy Maile was fantastic, Bob and the band delivered the goods in great style. It was great to meet up with Jules and Reevo, (the mad stage dancer), and also to meet Maureen from London who will hopefully be a forum member soon. We had such a great time, St. Davids Hall is a fantastic venue, with such friendly, helpful staff. Thanks for your help raiding the poster display cabinet outside the hall. As Jules said it's a beautiful picture of Bob. (Stage Raiders Rule). Lucky Reevo is at the peterboro gig tonite, two gigs, two nights, lucky b*****d. Check out my new avatar, two Bobs for the price of one. L&S Kaz. .
It was really nice to meet Mr Lovepump, but i only had enough time to say great show and to ask for a picture. I think he came out to see what was keeping Bob. Your right it is always Bob, would'nt it be great if we had the chance to meet all the band at a gig? I know this is Bobs website but I'm a fan of the whole band.
Hi Jules, we had a bit of banter between myself, Bob, Vince and Chris, because Chris was taking so many pictures for other people in the que and collecting their email addresses so he could mail them on. Bob suggested Chris should take it up professionally. When Bob was signing my rats t'shirt i asked if he wanted me to hold it taut, Bob replied now, now as if I was implying something else. It was a really nice moment. Bob seemed really happy and relaxed even though he still had a very long que of fans to see. As you know there were a lot of people waiting. Kaz.
Ah Jules & Kaz, so lucky. I'm so glad you had a good time, even with the camera issues. How did the Oxfam interview go, Jules?
Not surprised to hear about his divorce contained in a parking space in his brain. It shows 1) He was hurt so deeply by the whole thing that it took him years to become as composed about it as he sounds now, and 2) he's able to move on and focus on ... whatever's to come in his future. His kids, new music (maybe/hopefully), maybe more on Africa, whatever.
He already I think looked at the tragedy in a manageable way back when he first toured his SA&D album - that music put a 'shape to the experience' for him to kinda take out, study, get emotional - then can put back & store in his mind, like a CD. So he evolved from a CD ball shape thing to a parking space - a little more distant, more controlled. Obviously it must still hurt him, that pain'll probably never go away, but more time has passed and the would is not as raw as it was almost 10 years ago...the wound was a weeping scab when he first toured, it seemed...now it's starting to scar, a new phase of healing.
See Bob, don't deny that time heals! You said it in "Dave," shunned it when you were going through the pain of the divorce...now you're more composed about that pain, years later. No, just time passing on its own doesn't always heal...the hurt one has to do something about it him/herself, or else time would either become an endless slump - or end suddenly from suicide. So, time aided Bob by allowing him a period to compose, tour, be a father, help Africa....and just time for him to sort it out mentally on his own.
Anyway.
"He didn't bat an eyelid though, no raised eyebrow treatment for me this time." - that made me laugh. Good job Bob
And the pen thing. Did his work, did you get a nice signature out of it? My guess would be that he knows his own pen works. Maybe he even has that nice expensive pen solely for signing autographs. If he used other people's pens, the chances of them being out of ink may be higher ... because he doesn't know if it has enough ink or not.
Who knows. But you wrote a lovely review, with many cool details that painted clear pictures in my mind
The first song was what would have been my real request - Dave. My favourite Rats song and as he had said before when I requested it was also his. Then to my surprise he actually sang Attitude Chicken. I was amazed. He also did Banana Republic which was Kaz's request. (See below for full set list).
Indifference
Love or Something
Sex Thing
When The Night Comes
Pouring Rain
World Calling
Clockwork
Scream in Vain
One For Me
Mudslide
Birthday Suit
Mondays
Someone's Looking at You
Beat of the Night
Joey
Requests
Mary
Rat Trap
I Cry Too
Diamond Smiles
Life is the Hardest Thing
Well if he did Dave & Banana Republic in the requests, that makes 10 Rat tracks, almost an album's worth!
Cazzy I'll read your review in a moment, just have a few things to respond to here first. Will comment in there.
ArrGee - yes I was surprised at the number of Rats songs. Maybe he thought some of the audience (not die-hards like us) may know more Rats songs and not his solo stuff so he ought to play quite a few to keep us all happy?
MMBullyBuddyGP - thanks for your comments on my review. I'm really glad you enjoyed it. And actually found the thing that was meant to be funny funny!
I'm not too certain about my interview at Oxfam. It was an initial interview and I'll be called again on Monday if I get through to the next stage. Thinking about it afterwards I felt there were some areas on which I came across as a strong candidate and others not so. I had prepared for example giving, but possibly not enough. On one question I realised I talked about the issue but did not give a specific example, which was what they wanted. I guess it depends on my competition! And if those stronger areas gave them enough to base an opinion.
I agree with you about the divorce situation. These events life shattering, heart shattering and earth shattering, not something he would get over in five minutes. Maybe now he'll be able to reflect and realise that when he told Dave time heals, it really does. Things do become smaller in your head, take up less space, evoke less, less rawness. I don't think these things should ever go away, they are a part of our lives and we can't change it. A friend of mine went through some major traumas in 1996 (just a year after his actually) which involved death and children as well, in the last few months she has started to say to me that she feels more emotionally stable than she has in a long time and she's really moving on for the first time. It has taken nine years. She's my reason that I like the song Dave so much, it could have almost been written for us. It has very personal meaning.
And yes Bob has a lot of new focus in his life which has gradually helped him move away. Something so 'big', as he puts it, won't just disappear. It was good to see him so happy and relaxed.
Last time and the time before he signed for me he used my pen as he didn't have one with him. The signature, being ink, has smudged a little. Still I don't mind .
Kaz: I love the innuendo in your little meeting. I'm not sure I'd have known what to say to that LOL . At Aylesbury we did get to meet the rest of the band. We were lucky enough to be invited back stage. I'd say this was rare and wouldn't happen with a long queue like the one on Friday evening. There were only 6 of us waiting. I didn't know what to say to Vince, but he gave me a hug and a kiss and seemed really pleased to be asked to have his photo taken with me. I only spoke to Pete as well and had my photo taken with him, no-one else, but didn't say a lot to him either. Next time... And yes of course we must all be fans of the entire band, unless Bob wanted to do a one man and his guitar act he couldn't manage his music without them. Pete does some fabulous work on the production side too.
Edited to add:
Re the camera situation. I'm not too disappointed as I have Bristol to come and will ensure I get my act together. We definitely have Row A seats for that so the lighting might be better at the front for the SLR. The car park for the guest house is at the back of the guest house so if we leave anything in it we can access it easily! I have another chance.
.... it's wierd now i feel such a complete admiration towards geldof he's just so F***ing awsome it's unbelieveable he's my inspiration it feels so strange... hehehe
ArrGee - yes I was surprised at the number of Rats songs. Maybe he thought some of the audience (not die-hards like us) may know more Rats songs and not his solo stuff so he ought to play quite a few to keep us all happy?
The thing is I'm hardly a Geldof die-hard as far as the solo stuff is concerned. I'd stuggle to remember 80% + of what he has done solo. Personally, I think he should predominately do Rats stuff, after all that's what he is known for musically. Well OK, he can do Great Song of Indifference, Scream in Vain and $6,000,000 Loser in the main set, and then if he likes stick another couple in the encore, so I can get to the bar/cloakroom/tube
I've now uploaded all my videos the mytube.com. I can't seem to find out how to get the exact links, but if you go to videos and do a search on Geldof you'll find all 8. The talk ones are pretty clear and you'll hear his stories, the music ones - well, you can make out part of Mondays!
It sounds like you had a great time, I'm even more excited about Dec 9th now! Do you think he'll come out to see the fans then, too?
And good luck with the Oxfam thing.. I work there on and off as a volunteer, the result is that I end up buying way more Fairtrade chocolate than I need!
You made some good observations with Bob's divorce. And, I had no idea about "Dave" tying so deep to your personal life with your friend - the timing is very close so I can see why it has that meaning for you.
I meant to comment on the set list earlier - some good songs in there! How did his voice sound, compared to other concerts? I'm particularly interested in his performances with Like Clockwork and I Cry Too - my two favorites (BTR & BG)...! Also, did he get angry / annoyed at all (ie, retorting replies to the audience)? For some reason that stuff interests me.
And, shamefully, I've never heard of Life is the Hardest Thing...what's the background on this song?
Finally, that was cool of Bob to play Attitude Chicken for you Jules, when it sounded like he wasn't going to lol. What a great gig it must have been for you & Kaz for so many reasons.
Thanks Jules for the review - i should have been there, had tickets - but last minute life happened I was totally Incapacitaded with food poisoning!! which meant I missed Peterborough as well - anyone notice the empty seats? frontish I think, (I would of loved to give the tickets to someone else to enjoy but had no time - sorry) Could have been a right Girlie weekend for me and my sister in law. So its still 20 years since my last Bob (well Rats Gig) I am a lot older and more philosophical about these things now and managed just a small tantrum and have only ate 3 bowls of ben & Jerrys ( as soon as i felt better!!) as comfort. Ah; I thought not to strop too much theres' still Sheffield, Friday - checked e mails last night and thought Bronzed Adonis Hubby was having a laugh - Gig Cancelled! Checked here WHY? My man (grinning) says Bob wont have sold enough tickets and the band are welcome to play our front room - as , in his words ' We have 2, 4 seater settees' and the audience could always stretch out a bit to fill them!!' I am all grown up now and no longer cry. I just carry on stamping my feet and pouting, screeching NOT Funny! NOT Funny! (very 41!)
I was looking forward to trying to spot the die hards from the forum. Anyway Hull is on its way and i have tickets....so hopefully. Might even drag funny man Hubby along as retribution!! Incedentley, although he tries to appear unimpressed & indifferent, when he's been driving my car the CD he plays is usually Bob or the Rats.
Hope to spot some of you at Hull, Love the track list, i might just put it together and start listening to it now- But then knowing my luck at the moment, there'll be another dodgy curry or cancellation or Bob & band will decide to play 'A tribute to Westlife!!'